How to Blend In with the Locals: 20 Tips

While I am a proponent of bringing as much to the travel game as you hope to take away -- because local folks can well be just as interested in visitors as visitors are in the locals -- the benefits of simply blending into the culture that you're visiting cannot be underestimated. Doing so gives you an intimate look at the local culture that might not be granted to outsiders -- and it may even help keep you safe in places where outing yourself as a wealthy tourist makes you a target for pick-pocketing and other crimes. But you don't have to abandon your sense of self to fit in. I have found that many of the most successful ways to do so can be very superficial and benign, such as wearing different clothes, leaving certain items in the safe in your hotel or changing where you buy your food. Here are 20 tips to help you to blend in with the locals the next time you travel. 1. Wear muted clothes. When it comes to blending in, the clothes you wear are your first line of defense. Simple, muted clothing is almost always the way to go when traveling. It might turn out that a Flyers T-shirt or Mariners cap is really popular at the moment in the country you are visiting, but you are taking a risk if your goal is to blend in. 2. Pack clothes you can wear anywhere. One of the challenges of blending in is being able to do so when visiting the local barber as well as dining at the best local restaurant. If you pack clothes that are versatile, and neither flash nor trash, you have a better chance of being able to blend in in many different situations. Unfortunately, clothes specifically designed for travel -- cargo shorts, or pant legs that zip off to become shorts, for example -- don't always fit in. For ideas on how the locals dress where you are headed, see tip #6 below. 3. Douse the camera and other tourist accoutrements. Taking photos of your travels is a natural and very enjoyable thing, but if you want to blend in, you may want to tone it down a bit. Having a big honking camera hanging from your neck everywhere you go acts like an outsider's scarlet letter -- not to mention an attraction for thieves. Bring the camera, but keep it under wraps a bit, and don't point it where it is not welcome. The same goes for things like fanny packs, guidebooks and the like; you can bring them, but try to keep a low profile. 4. Douse the shoes. It seems that in particular white shoes or running shoes paired with white socks are an outsider's freak flag. In many European countries, for instance, this type of shoe is only worn when working out -- not in any other sort of public situation. I'm not sure about the fashion component here, but it makes sense that bright white shoes attract attention, the antithesis of "blending in." 5. Buy clothes at your destination. If you have the budget for it, consider picking up some clothes upon arrival at your destination. (Just make sure you're buying where the locals do, not at a souvenir shack designed for tourists.) One possible financial consideration: if it means you have fewer bags to check at the airport, you might recover some of your expenses even before you leave home. 6. Do an image search on the Web. Here's a tip I learned from a friend who recently took a "gap year" after college to go around the world: pictures of a place found in the news and other online resources really can tell you what a place will look like when you get there, and how people dress -- unlike idealized tourist brochures or glossy guidebooks. 7. Have your money under control. If you understand the value of the local currency and various denominations, carry it in a straightforward way (wallet, purse), and can make transactions competently, you will blend in much better. Fumbling with money not only outs you as an outsider, but also can make you a mark for thieves. Keep in mind, however, that you should carry only what you need for a single day in a wallet or purse. If you're carrying a big wad of cash, a passport, etc., it should still go in a money belt under your clothes or stay in the hotel safe for more security. (See Money Safety for more tips.) 8. Be courteous without being fawning. I grew up in a tourist town, and know the love/hate relationship the locals have with their money-spending interlopers. Locals do often need the revenue that tourists bring, but in the worst cases it can be like having an awful boss -- almost not worth the dough. Finances aside, locals want neither to be treated like they live to please you, nor to be treated like you are doing them a favor by saying hello. Take your cues from them, and you will start to blend in. When in doubt, err on the side of being overly courteous -- trying to be a little bit likeable never hurts -- so long as you remember that you're not doing anyone but yourself any favors.

9. Plan out your day and route. If you have a sense of what you are going to do and how to get there, you will be able to navigate through your day with confidence. Plan out your driving route or check public transportation maps back in your room -- not on a street corner or in the middle of an intersection. 10. Buy stuff at local stores. There may be no better place to learn a lot and fit in better than a local grocery store. Get a haircut at the local barber (this is my personal travel custom), or buy your lunch from a food cart. 11. Move counter to the crowds. Folks who really want to blend in with the locals also tend to want actually to go out and be with the locals -- and following the well-worn tourist tracks won't get you there. If you visit the Liberty Bell, you should expect to be surrounded by other tourists visiting the Liberty Bell. This advice is applicable to almost everything you do -- so try staying somewhere other than the popular tourist hotels, going somewhere other than the most popular tourist beaches, and seeing some of the more unusual or out-of-the-way sights (which can still be found in tourist guidebooks and Web sites). 12. Learn -- and use -- some of the language. Arguably mangling the local language just makes it clear you aren't from around here, but you would be surprised how much slack you get for trying. If you don't know how to say something, ask -- many locals are happy to help you learn. And the more you practice, the better you get at the language, which can open doors that lead you deeper into the local culture. 13. Say hello. At the very least, say hello to folks you encounter. You would do this at the local Wawa, so you should do the same at the panaderia. 14. Modulate your voice. Don't be the obnoxious American in the corner booth whose loud laughter disrupts everyone else's dinner. It's not like people in other places are quiet -- every neighborhood has a local or two who is really noisy -- but that person shouldn't be your role model if you're trying to blend in. (Some travelers recommend you speak at about half your usual volume.) Keep in mind that there are exceptions to this rule, though; in some cultures and settings (like a noisy public market), you'll need to speak up in order to be noticed and fit in with the locals. Also on this topic: If you don't speak the language, talking even louder in English is not going to make you understood. Volume does not equal comprehension. Lower the volume! 15. Be a prepared and attentive driver. Nothing screams "outsider" like someone stopping and starting, going under the speed limit, gawking out the windows, and generally clogging up the streets and roads. Try to check your maps and route ahead of time, put someone in the copilot's seat who has a handle on it, and most of all watch the road ahead of you. 16. Pay attention. If you want to blend in with the locals, pay attention to how the locals act, what they do, where they congregate, how they dress -- and follow suit. If you want to walk the walk, it's going to have to be their walk. And don't assume that your custom is their custom. If you are paying attention, you might find that things like prolonged direct eye contact or a giant smile don't go over too well in a particular location, even if at home these are always the way to go. Change up your style to match their style as you go along, accepting that you won't get it right immediately. 17. Carry yourself with confidence. Locals tend not to walk wide-eyed around their own neighborhoods. Look like you know what you are doing and where you are going, and other people will think you do -- even if you don't have a clue. 18. Consider alternative lodging. A homestay or an apartment rental in a residential neighborhood will give you more of an opportunity to interact with locals than staying in a hotel in a touristy part of town. 19. Look for local events. Check out fliers and local entertainment listings to find concerts, festivals, lectures and other events that will attract locals rather than tourists (universities, libraries and churches are good places to look for this sort of thing). Editor Sarah Schlichter recalls, "I once pushed aside my afternoon sightseeing plans when I stumbled upon a free organ concert in a Rotterdam church, and it ended up being the best memory I had from my time there." 20. Be yourself. There is only so much you can do to make yourself disappear into the local culture. When I was in Beijing, I could have worn a dragon costume in a street parade and I still would not have been able to blend in. But I met a lot of great people merely by saying hello and being myself from there on out; if I had tried to be too cool, it would have been a far lesser experience. If you employ enough of the tactics listed above, don't be surprised on your next trip if someone asks you for directions in a language you barely understand. Article Source Go Anyway,Ed Hewitt The Independent Traveler http://www.independenttraveler.com/resources/article.cfm?AID=1055&category=13

10 Reasons to Have Your Birthday Party on a Cruise

The older we get the more our birthdays seem to become less of an occasion. Other than the obvious milestones, there is some societal taboo that seems to stop many of us from throwing a heck of a party every year because there will be snickers and talk of "we are not five years old anymore, why should we throw such a big party?"

The truth is that our birthdays are really more of an excuse to get our friends together in one place so that we can all party. Enjoying time with one another becomes more difficult with jobs and families and if a birthday can be the impetus for having a great time, than so be it.

Going on an impromptu vacation can be a serious bonding time for you and your friends and with so many inclusive options you can tailor the birthday you want - be it weekend spa getaway or time on a cruise. Here are 10 reasons to have your birthday party on a boat cruise.

The first reason is price. In this economy, spending just a little to have an all inclusive experience is the ultimate luxury. Minus alcohol and some extras, all your entertainment needs are covered. You don't have to spend time overly planning your itinerary.

Second, and in the same vein, the culinary experience is second to none. Celebrate your birthday in style with a gourmet meal that you friends don't have to suffer to afford as it is included.

Third, boat cruises are all about your choice. You can travel to more than one destination on a boat cruise depending on where it will be at port so that you can explore many different environments. It is up to you!

Fourth, on top of your port choices, you can stretch yourself and try any number of exciting activities like rock climbing or surfing.

If that doesn't sound like you and your friends, fifth, you can all have a relaxing time decompressing from the stresses of the every day world. Whether you're sun bathing or getting a massage, your birthday can be the reason you and your friends can get away from it all.

Sixth, you can go to many different places without having to pack too many bags. Cruises are a one stop shop in terms of entertainment and experiences.

Seventh, boat cruises are made for fun and adventure. You and your friends can spend your birthday stretching yourselves and partaking in new experiences.

If things go well, the eighth reason can be the possibility of finding love. When people are not on guard and are truly enjoying themselves, good things can happen.

Ninth, transportation is not an issue. Having everyone find there way to a vacation essentially in your honor can be stressful for everyone involved. If you live too far from a port of departure many cruise deals include airfare.

Tenth, the overall experience is worth it. Going to sea and being taken care of can give you the taste of what it is like to have it all. Spend your birthday with the ones you love and make it an experience that everyone can tailor to make it the best vacation they never knew they needed.

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And the Winner of the stupid Question Award is....

We've all done it. You know, asking the question that has the oh so obvious answer.  Who is buried in Grant's tomb? (well entombed actually) When was the war of 1812?  Which month is May Day celebrated?

Cruise ship passengers are no different.  Here are some of the funniest (some will say, stupidest) questions asked of Cruise Directors and Crew.

Does the crew sleep on the ship? 

Tough question...... any ideas?

Which elevator do I take to get to the front of the ship?

Generally, elevators go UP or DOWN. If you want to get to the front (which is the bow) of the ship you will have to ......walk

Is the iced tea hot? 

Do we need to explain this one? 

Can we get off the ship when we have 'our day at sea'?

Sure, if you have a swim in mind

What time is the midnight buffet? 

The midnight buffet is at - say it all together – MIDNIGHT!

Do these stairs go up as well as down?

Uh, depends on which way your feet are facing

Is the water in the toilet fresh water or saltwater?  

What does it matter, as long as it flushed!

Does the outside cabin mean it's outside the ship?

We'll be back for you

How does the Captain know which port to go to?

Coin toss?

Do we have to eat dinner at both seatings?

Only if you visit the gym 10 times a day

Does the ship generate its own electricity? 

There is a   l-o-n-g   extension cord plugged into the port you sailed out of… just kidding  

Why does the cabin crew leave small pats of 'butter' on my pillow at night?

Chocolate is disguised after 8pm

How small does your face have to be to have a mini facial?

Depends on who is doing the measuring

How many feet above sea level are we? 

Well, let's see, or is that sea?

What do you do with the beautiful ice sculptures after they melt? 

Hmmm

Is the island surrounded by water? 

Definition of an island:  A land mass, especially one smaller than a continent, entirely surrounded by water

What religion are those people who have pink patches behind their ears?

A Patch E

And the #1 stupidest question:

If the photos aren’t marked, how will we know which ones are ours? 

Look for YOU in them!!